Any man who pursues a woman, does so because he finds her attractive. Part of that attraction is sexual attraction.
So why is it that a few months or years later the man finds her less sexy? Where does the attraction go? Is it that he gets bored with her?
Contrary to what many assume, gaining weight is not what makes a woman less sexy? A woman can be a BBW and add some kilograms and still be plus size kind of sexy.
No, it is not the stretch marks that come with child bearing that makes a woman less sexy. A woman’s skin can be full of stripes and still turn on her man like crazy.
No, it is not old age that comes with wrinkles and sagging of breasts that a makes a woman less sexy. A woman can be in her sixties and still have sexual appeal.
What makes a woman stop being sexy is her attitude. It does not matter how fine your body is, how tight your vagina is, how perky your breasts are, how nice your butt is, how many squats you do, how good you twerk, how great a physique you are endowed with and how sensual your lingerie is; if your attitude stinks, no man will find you worth a prolonged sexual chase. And even if it is your husband, if you have a negative attitude, he might tolerate it to get an orgasm but soon he will get tired and desire your body less.
A stinking attitude means you are mean, proud, condescending, spiteful, bearing a don’t care demeanor and showing contempt. A stinking attitude also means a low self esteem, hopelessness, passionless, lazy, flat, dull, negative, a sadistic mindset that always believes the worst and is ever suspicious, accusing the husband of imaginary crimes.
If you possess the above attitude and you’re wondering why the sex life in your marriage is pathetic; now you know why.
Before you invest so much effort at the gym trying to lose weight, buying new lingerie and creams to hide your stretch marks, change your attitude.
Men are attracted to a loving, bright, playful, respectful attitude. And gentlemen, before you accuse her of a bad attitude, check how you have been treating her. Sometimes a woman develops a bad attitude because of mistreatment by her man and sometimes it is just because she is selfish and doesn’t care about personal advancement.
**Don’t Just Know**